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		<title>By: Kasmira</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18711</link>
		<dc:creator>Kasmira</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 19:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi - your MIL pointed me towards your site (when she heard I also did theater).  Nice to &quot;meet&quot; you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi &#8211; your MIL pointed me towards your site (when she heard I also did theater).  Nice to &#8220;meet&#8221; you!</p>
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		<title>By: Hit the Links! &#171; Then Heather Said</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18647</link>
		<dc:creator>Hit the Links! &#171; Then Heather Said</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 01:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Live. period. The Converse Effect by Kelsey. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Live. period. The Converse Effect by Kelsey. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Devon</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18632</link>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 20:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just don&#039;t think I&#039;m &quot;hip&quot; enough to pull of Converse.  I&#039;m entirely too much of a prepster.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m &#8220;hip&#8221; enough to pull of Converse.  I&#8217;m entirely too much of a prepster.</p>
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		<title>By: Missy Tigges</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18622</link>
		<dc:creator>Missy Tigges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 15:21:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you, Kels. I so needed this today! I actually read your blog when you first posted it, but this morning I woke up with such a feeling of dread (about school), that I needed to re-read and feel refreshed/renewed. Your post did just that for me. Now I can push myself through this hell-week and close out my first two semesters of grad school! After I put this computer down, I am going to grab a cup of coffee, walk out onto the patio, and take it all in... feel the breeze on my skin and the Spring sun on my face. It is in those little moments where you really want to thank God for his blessings and stop stupidly taking this life for granted. All of this could be gone in an instant, right? And then none of it would matter anymore anyway... Bills, debt, exams, fights, work B.S., etc... none of it would even matter. All that matters is that you enjoyed this gift of life to the fullest, and helped others to do so, too, along the way... Isn&#039;t that a thought that keeps you grounded? I know it does for me. I need to remember that I am here to make this dream happen, damn it, so stop getting sucked into the grind. It is what I always wanted, after all!

But, God, you&#039;re so right. Enjoy your life. You&#039;re alive! You&#039;re able bodied and can move and dance and sing and enjoy different hobbies and interests. (I am speaking to the collective YOU, of course.) Break out of this rut and run. Be free. What a great message! This message was delivered to me in such a tragic, shocking way this summer, but it truly hit home... Thank you for the eloquent, well-written reminder. 

Love you so!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Kels. I so needed this today! I actually read your blog when you first posted it, but this morning I woke up with such a feeling of dread (about school), that I needed to re-read and feel refreshed/renewed. Your post did just that for me. Now I can push myself through this hell-week and close out my first two semesters of grad school! After I put this computer down, I am going to grab a cup of coffee, walk out onto the patio, and take it all in&#8230; feel the breeze on my skin and the Spring sun on my face. It is in those little moments where you really want to thank God for his blessings and stop stupidly taking this life for granted. All of this could be gone in an instant, right? And then none of it would matter anymore anyway&#8230; Bills, debt, exams, fights, work B.S., etc&#8230; none of it would even matter. All that matters is that you enjoyed this gift of life to the fullest, and helped others to do so, too, along the way&#8230; Isn&#8217;t that a thought that keeps you grounded? I know it does for me. I need to remember that I am here to make this dream happen, damn it, so stop getting sucked into the grind. It is what I always wanted, after all!</p>
<p>But, God, you&#8217;re so right. Enjoy your life. You&#8217;re alive! You&#8217;re able bodied and can move and dance and sing and enjoy different hobbies and interests. (I am speaking to the collective YOU, of course.) Break out of this rut and run. Be free. What a great message! This message was delivered to me in such a tragic, shocking way this summer, but it truly hit home&#8230; Thank you for the eloquent, well-written reminder. </p>
<p>Love you so!</p>
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		<title>By: kelsey</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18621</link>
		<dc:creator>kelsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 17:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a flattering comment... I&#039;m so glad you liked the post, because it was hard, as always, not to second guess myself. lol. 
xoxo
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Converse Effect&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a flattering comment&#8230; I&#8217;m so glad you liked the post, because it was hard, as always, not to second guess myself. lol.<br />
xoxo<br />
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/" rel="nofollow">The Converse Effect</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: kelsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>kelsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 17:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is SO funny that you say that, because I meant to throw in a funny sentence near the end saying something like... &quot;And for what its worth, if you ever have a burning need to buy me something, a guys size 6 chuck taylor is ALWAYS appreciated&quot; haha!

Its the guys 6/womens 8... I&#039;ll happily send you casholla if you find some cute ones!!! :D xo
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Converse Effect&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is SO funny that you say that, because I meant to throw in a funny sentence near the end saying something like&#8230; &#8220;And for what its worth, if you ever have a burning need to buy me something, a guys size 6 chuck taylor is ALWAYS appreciated&#8221; haha!</p>
<p>Its the guys 6/womens 8&#8230; I&#8217;ll happily send you casholla if you find some cute ones!!! <img src='http://www.kelseytoney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  xo<br />
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/" rel="nofollow">The Converse Effect</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 17:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>also - can we discuss what size chucks you wear? as clearly i work at a shoe store that specializes in the converse and sometimes my discount is just too good on marked down pairs to pass up. [as in, the shoes i am wearing currently cost me $3. ahem]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>also &#8211; can we discuss what size chucks you wear? as clearly i work at a shoe store that specializes in the converse and sometimes my discount is just too good on marked down pairs to pass up. [as in, the shoes i am wearing currently cost me $3. ahem]</p>
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		<title>By: Caitlin@TheTwentyFifthYear</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18618</link>
		<dc:creator>Caitlin@TheTwentyFifthYear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 16:50:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh EM GEE. No, more like ZOMG. Bookmarked. One of the best posts I have EVER read. Kelsey this is so right, so well thought out and written and beautiful and TRUE. My goodness is it true. Yes, we have all heard the &quot;life is too short&quot; cliche blah blah blah but this post just brought a fresh perspective to it. Blame it on the Chucks or maybe just the place where I am at in my life, but this just did it for me. Thank you. THANK YOU. I am going to go enjoy my day, my way now keeping this in mind. xoxo
.-= Caitlin@TheTwentyFifthYear´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thetwentyfifthyear.wordpress.com/2010/04/09/put-your-money-where-your-mouth-is/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh EM GEE. No, more like ZOMG. Bookmarked. One of the best posts I have EVER read. Kelsey this is so right, so well thought out and written and beautiful and TRUE. My goodness is it true. Yes, we have all heard the &#8220;life is too short&#8221; cliche blah blah blah but this post just brought a fresh perspective to it. Blame it on the Chucks or maybe just the place where I am at in my life, but this just did it for me. Thank you. THANK YOU. I am going to go enjoy my day, my way now keeping this in mind. xoxo<br />
.-= Caitlin@TheTwentyFifthYear´s last blog ..<a href="http://thetwentyfifthyear.wordpress.com/2010/04/09/put-your-money-where-your-mouth-is/" rel="nofollow">Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: kelsey</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18617</link>
		<dc:creator>kelsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 14:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YAY!! thank you! I&#039;ll comment there, and also blog about it sometime soon. :D
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Converse Effect&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAY!! thank you! I&#8217;ll comment there, and also blog about it sometime soon. <img src='http://www.kelseytoney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/" rel="nofollow">The Converse Effect</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: kelsey</title>
		<link>http://www.kelseytoney.com/2010/04/the-converse-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-18616</link>
		<dc:creator>kelsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 14:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow, we DO have a lot in common!! :D 
I&#039;m so happy that you liked the post, makes me glad I decided to publish it!! :D
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Converse Effect&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow, we DO have a lot in common!! <img src='http://www.kelseytoney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I&#8217;m so happy that you liked the post, makes me glad I decided to publish it!! <img src='http://www.kelseytoney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= kelsey´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/KelseyToney/~3/tdyuTv08ULM/" rel="nofollow">The Converse Effect</a> =-.</p>
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