The very best parents.
Sometimes… your parents get everything right.
A week ago, my mother, and father (divorced since I was 7 years old) both – and independently—confirmed that I have two of the very best parents on the entire planet.
I’ve not always been so wise. So wise as to recognize them for the amazing parents that they are. In different ways, certainly… but they both definitely are. ![]()
I’ve experienced periods, (sometimes long periods) of time feeling certain that my parents a) didn’t understand me b) didn’t deserve my compassion c) hadn’t been perfect and/or d) all of the above.
In one calendar week, my parents (and both of my tremendously beautiful and loving step-parents – I prefer the term ‘second parents’) proved to me that they not only love me (and my husband) dearly, but that they truly would pull a million strings, cross a dozen oceans, and climb an infinite peak in order to be there for me.
To Mom and Dad, this post is for you. ![]()
Mom-
Last weekend, you helped me realize what was, surprisingly, a dream come true.
I’ve always craved a place of my own. A place that is lush, green, populated by critters, and gorgeous… like, magazine gorgeous. A place that is quiet, even in a suburb. A place that is sprinkled with the discarded leaves of beloved ferns and blue daze flowers. A place that hummingbirds flock to. A place that is tended by rabbits and maybe even a squirrel or two.
A place that feels like a glossy photograph in a glamorous article.
A place that is all mine.
Last week, our patio cover construction was completed, and you and John helped it to become so. You helped the plants find pots. You helped the hummingbirds find a feeder. You helped the windchime find its hook.
I’ve spend time, EVERY morning since you came, out with the watering hose, making sure that the flowers have a drink. That the ferns have a gulp, and watching the bunnehs (inevitably) eat our liriope. ![]()
We got SWEATY.
We got DIRTY.
We got TIRED.
And in the end, I became a “Veranda Girl” of my very own. Created in the image of my lovely mother, who has always cherished her outdoor places.
Thank you mom, for creating such a beautiful patio with me.
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To Dad–
I love you. I truly do. There are a very small number of moments of my life that I can say I “regret” and not realizing what a wonderful father you are, YEARS AND YEARS ago is among them. Adolescence made me stupid, I admit. I certainly used that developmental time of my life to give me a reason to have a seat in the “mad at my dad for no particular reason club”.
Time has shown me how silly that was.
You’ve shown me how difficult it can be to follow your dreams. Follow your heart. Follow your legacy. But how completely worth it the endeavor really is.
You’ve proven that it’s NEVER too late to change the path you’ve been on… no matter who expects you to continue upon it.
You’ve given me a beautiful second-mom in LaDonna. Someone I love and respect. You’ve shown me how to handle sadness with grace and strength… (even if it’s perceived by others as tearfulness)… and even though you couldn’t make it to every recital… every concert… every performance…
You drove over 1700 miles to see a dress rehearsal, and truly the only scheduled performance of my show that you could possibly attend.
You spoke with my husband, who graciously communicated to the directors, and you drove.
You drove, and drove, and drove.
You drove through fatigue, and timezones, and when my director called me to the lobby, on the eve of our very first dress rehearsal of tech/hell week,
You, my daddy, stood there.
You gave me roses, even before opening night.
You were there to be my audience. To laugh, to cry, and to even MOO with me during a performance of what is truly my favorite show, and most beloved role ever.
The gesture of your roadtrip melted me.
I’ve never been so grateful to you. Never been more proud to have you by my side. Never been more thankful that my pubescent heart moved on from all of the drama of high school angst.
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This week, I got to look out into a beautiful garden.
I looked out upon an expansive and beautiful garden, created by the sweat and tears of the husband who loves me.
I looked out upon a patio, outfitted beautifully by my mother, that reminds me to always take those still and precious moments for my own spirit.
I looked out onto the blooms of the roses presented to me by my father, for the show that he watched me perform in… singing and dancing my way through a story that has captivated my heart.
It was truly one of the greatest views I’ve ever experienced.
Thanks mom and dad.
I love you.

getting shots in your feet SUCKS
Hey gang.
I’m laid out on the couch and really don’t have the desire to write anything new, so I’m going to copy and paste from my h&F board, about what happened with the podiatrist on Friday.
Went back to the doctor today, and got steroid injections in the bottoms of both feet.
It was really bad, I don’t know if it was just a bad reaction, or what, but it burned like fire as it spread. The injection site is swollen and hurts at the touch. I can hardly walk at all because it burns and aches so badly.
During the injection, she told me to expect pain at an 8-10 on the pain scale, and she was right.
Anyway, the steroids should reduce inflammation and speed healing, but the PF was not being terribly responsive to just stretching and icing, so these shots were step two.
In 2 weeks I’ll go back and we’ll either see progress, or move onto physical therapy.
So, running hasn’t crested the horizon yet. may still be months…
So, on Friday, I couldn’t put weight on my foot, almost at all. Literally, daron carried me upstairs (so cute) and I crawled to the bathroom if I needed to go.
Not. Awesome.
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Today, we went to celebrate winter birthdays at a Mexican food restaurant… My Grams and Art both have winter birthdays, along with my baby brother!!
I CAN NOT BELIEVE HE IS 21 in just 2 days!!!!
Merry Everyone
Hey lovelies!
It has been a couple of weeks since my last update, and for that I do NOT apologize.
The holidays always manage to make me feel stressed, and blogging has to go to the back burner when I need to focus on friends, family, travel, and last but not least… myself.
Thought I’d give a quick update about our Holidays!
On Thursday, we got up bright and early, to drive to east texas, where my dad’s side of the family lives (Dad and Step Mom extrordinarre live in Tennessee). We picked up my little brother on the way, and made the journey to the east. It was awesome, we had a big breakfast and exchanged gifts including this beauty… Trust me, it is a long story… ![]()

It was so great to see my daddy…

We were watching the storm pass over our home, in DFW on the weather channel, and knew that we needed to get on the road if we wanted to get home safely.
We set off and got SO close, but just north of Frisco, they started closing off roads and people were sliding off everywhere because of the ice. We decided to detour to my grandparents house to get out of the “blizzard-like” conditions. We waited out the storm, but decided that we would try again to get home, as we had some plans for christmas morning, and wanted to get to our own beds.
Another hour + on the road, and eventually, we got home safe and sound.
We woke up on christmas morning, and I felt very jolly. I made some cinnamon/egg nog waffles for my hubby and brother… (don’t forget that your waffle iron needs non stick spray, or your first waffle could look like this:
Once I remembered that little nugget, my boys were happy.
We opened the few presents under the tree (as most were exchanged at other times and places) and I watched the parade and stared out my windows into our snow covered yard. ![]()


After breakfast, I got to have a christmas chat with my lola! The whole family was there, and she got to meet my brother clint, so it was pretty special for me.
Later that afternoon, we took my bro out to my grams house, where we had a DELISH dinner, and opened more presents. Grams and my great grandmother, aptly called “grandmother” made pies and potatoes, stuffing, and fruit salad. Yum.
I was sooooo glad to see my mom… isn’t she beautiful?

That is my holiday wrap up, I hope yours was just as enjoyable.
Well, I’m back!! Daron and I have partially recovered from our 17+ hours of transit time from yesterday. It was a really, really, really long flight home. I’m so glad to be home, but I have to tell you that I miss Madrid so much, and the family I met there.
I have no idea how many blog posts it will take for me to get it all out, but I’ll try to be clear and mention all of the good parts in turn.
I have 1,168 photos from the trip and when I tried to trim it down to “highlights” I only got it down to 298!! HA! Anyway, that means that there are a crap ton of photos, which I will gladly link to, but there are a lot to wade through.
So, I guess I’ll begin at the beginning.
Part 1: Crossing the Pond and the Hug of a Lifetime.
I was so excited on departure day, that I am positive my husband considered dropping me off at the airport 5 hours early just to be rid of me. I was anxious to be traveling alone, but the staff @ lufthansa was really nice. My seatmate was a very kind, but very severe Finnish man, who reminded me of one of the bad guys from Indiana Jones. When I took my seat with my massive backpack, he offered to put it in the overhead bin for me. When I refused (as all of my junk was in there) and told him I’d keep it under my seat, he chuckled and said he’d be happy to move it for me when I got tired of having my knees in my chest after 6 hours. (I should note that this very comment prevented me from asking him to move it for me when I got tired of having my knees in my chest after 6 hours.) I didn’t get much sleep, though I tried… At one point, I woke, and kept smelling something funny. It took me about an hour to figure out that it was the gaping mouth of the Lars on my right. Ugh. The food wasn’t anything to write home about on this flight, but was certainly appreciated. Entertainment while on board was pretty okay, I watched Confessions of a Shopaholic, Duplicity, and I Love You, Man
The layover was a BEATING. I arrived about 8.5 hours before my connecting flight was to take off, so when I asked a lady how I was supposed to go about getting my boarding pass, she either misunderstood, or thought I looked gullible, because she told me just to “Exit”… I took that to mean that I needed to fully exit the airport and re enter so that I could go to the ticket counter again. (which it turns out I DEFINITELY did not need to do) this process ended up taking almost a full hour, because the Frankfurt airport is a REALLY big travel hub. When I got to the passport counter, the German passport control was a really big and intimidating guy. I swear he looked at me for, like 3 minutes, up and down at my passport picture. It made me nervous! I swear I started sweating and my face got red, like I was guilty! Anyway, after about a thousand minutes, he slammed his stamp against my passport without looking down and said, “Velcome to Germany”… hehe. It was pretty funny.
In the airport, I had a LONG time to kill, which I filled with mulling around the duty free shops, hunting for an ATM, playing on my DSi (Daron’s graduation present for me!!), and having a skype convo with Daron once he finely got up! The flight into Madrid went pretty fast, but when we started our decent, I started to lose it. I was looking down on the Madrid area, and hoping my new traveling companion (that suspiciously enough, I can NOT for the life of me remember ANYTHING about… creepy) wouldn’t notice the tears starting to well in my eyes. The close we got to the ground, the more I had to fight them back. The anticipation, the uncertainty, the anxiety… it just kept building.
The wait for my luggage almost unbearable… I finally grabbed my bag from the belt frantically, and ran for the exit door. I couldn’t keep my tears from falling at this point, and my breathing was strained… on the verge of hyperventilation. Was she there? Did she find the right gate? Was there an accident that might keep her from being there on time? Does my hair look okay? I should have stopped to pee. What if she doesn’t like me… What if i don’t recognize her…
The faces at the curb were all strange and new. Signs beckoned for “Smiths” and “Lopez”, and people on tiptoes pressed against the railings, looking for those who had traveled to see them. Shirts were rubbed flat, taxis were being hailed, and people were struggling with the almost-too-full suitcases they tugged behind them. And then, above the sea of strange faces, one that I knew and love… one with eyes, full of tears like mine, one of my beautiful Lola, waiting, just like me, to hug the sister she’s never touched.
We couldn’t get to each other fast enough, and yes, we were those crazy people in the airport who are hugging and crying in front of everyone. I knew she was tall, but I still smiled as I looked up at her. I know her voice, but her laugh was so light and joyful, it took me by surprise… I already memorized the shape of her glasses, and the brown of her hair, but I could never have imagined the warmth of her hugs. My sister, my friend, my lola.
Up next, Alicante and the IASE Conference!
Zzzzzzzzzzzz…
A game… Holiday Play By Play.
I’m going to attempt to recap my holidays in short sentences spanning about 2-8 hours each! Enjoy!! ![]()
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We left wednesday afternoon, and roadtripped to Arkansas to see Daron’s fam. (6 hour car ride. Boo.)
On the way we stopped at McDonald’s to get a bite right before they closed…
I sat directly behind Santa and Mrs. Claus… (seriously, I was all nervous and giddy, it was them)
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Then, we got to Fayetteville and slept.
Christmas morning, we made cranberry muffins (pretty good) and went to his sister’s for christmas celebration.
Unwrapping commenced/we ate/we laid on the couch/we ate/we talked/we watched a movie.
Friday, we made cherry cordial cookies.
Saturday we left for Mt. Pleasant, where my dad lives- in East Texas. (5 hour drive…meh)
Late afternoon, we arrived.
Merriment, sandwiches, pass the ace, loud little brother, cookie sheets, driving home(2 hour drive, yay).
Got home last night, loved on the cats (who may eventually forgive us) and slept like bricks.
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Couch.
Football.
Cat cuddling.
Tales of Beedle the Bard.
Pizza.
Napping.
Man I’m glad I’ve got another week! (Holla, Haney!!)









